I was cleaning out my office this week and came across some papers from a class I took while in the counseling program. It simply amazed me how the quotes and things jumped off the page. I seem to remember that it was just "another packet" of classroom information....... I was simply too busy and rushed with "life" to appreciate this wonderful packet of the professor's many years of teaching and wisdom. But the seeds were planted and when I read these quotes now, some 5+ years later, I understand more than ever about their power and meaning.
Below is a quote that is especially relevant, I think, to family members dealing with another's mental dis-ease. . . . .
"The recovery of your sick or return of your absent friend, or some other favorable event raises your spirits, and you think good days are preparing for you.
Do not believe it.
Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.
Nothing can bring you peace but the triumph of principles."
Emerson, "Self-Reliance"
I know it seems "out there" to find peace in the midst of turmoil but the more things change the more they stay the same.... who said that? I'm not sure but the reality of a mental illness diagnosis can be life altering and maybe focusing on one's own growth and development can show us the way. Facing the truth and not being afraid of the situation or who we are can be liberating. I've been there and understand the challenge, but I can tell you it is a worthwhile endeavor. (Thanks, Dave!)
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